Well, about 2 and a half months ago I had unprotected oral sex with a man from african origin. I got tested at 27 days on a DUO test (got my days mixed up) but managed to deduce from the freedom health forums that its unlikely to make a differance to a result on the the 28th day. I just wanted to check this was true.
Also, and here is my biggest worry, about 2 and a half weeks I got very very drunk. I was on my way home and somehow met a man. The thing is, I dont actually remember very much at all. I remember kissing him, and only kissing him, and then I remember being in a differant part of my area telling him to leave me alone. The next day I was pretty sure I hadnt had sex. I didnt have any sort of pain or ache in my vagina, or heavyness or anything really. It felt like I hadnt done anything. However, when I woke up there was a small wet patch beneath my bum, that until I gave it much thought, didnt worry me. But since a man has never cum inside me without a condom on im not actually sure how much cum there would be or what it would be like. It dried pretty quickly as soon as I woke up and didnt leave any sort of stain. I had found a broken glass that I must have split next to my bed when I got in, so maybe the wetness was from that, but it was just beneath my bum so Im not sure. I dont believe I ever passed out while coming home, rather just have forgotten what happend. What are other telltale signs that I might have had sex? This guy (from what I remember) might have been italian, or at least european.
I wouldnt be SO worried about waiting a few months for a test, but I have a date with a women in about two weeks and I dont want to be worried about passing anything on, so hypothetically, if I was to get another DUO test done, would it be conclusive for both the previous risk and this one too?
No rreal risk of HIV infection through oral sex, even if the man was positive. The HIV Duo test at 27 days would be conclusive and totally reliable, without any significant difference with a test done at 28 days. From that, you can rest assured.
Regarding your mysterious wet patch on your bum, I am sorry but I cannot tell what it could be if you yourself do not know what it is. It is important not to put oneself in any situation where you are not aware of what has happened and not to be in control; you can put yourself at risk of so many things, not just STDs, by being so vulnerable. It is great to have a drink and have a good time, but make sure you do not lose control of the situation.
I think you ought to have a Duo test after 4 weeks of this event. This will cover both episodes and will give you complete peace of mind, which is what you need whne you do not really know what actually happen that day.