hi doctors
I have had 20 hiv tests in the past 2 years, 2 duo test and the rest all insti tests all negative, kept retesting thinking doctors have re-used needles, my girlfriend has been great,came to all the tests with me, anyhow I had the last test 5 weeks ago an insti test it was negative, was relieved i saw all the packaging was over the moon,
My wife has had diareoh for 3 weeks that was 4 weeks ago, she was under a lot of stress, we had a bad patch at the time, she was a virgin before she met me, looking at the internet which is really bad i know, has made all the bad memories come back again, I keep thinking why has she had diareoh for 3 weeeks, its made me really worry I love her loads, I think if its not me,has she touched some blood at the private clinics where I got tested ie door handles etc etc, then I think what if the insti cannot pick up hiv 2 etc etc, my minds all a mess ALL THE TESTS WERE DONE AT PRIVATE CLINICS
PLEASE HELP
REGARDS JOHN
P.S MERRY CHRISTMAS
Without doubt you are HIV negative but equally without doubt you have a psychological issue with the concept of HIV infection.
You need to see a good clinical psychologist.
You and your partner do not need any more HIV or other blood tests - you are wasting your money and you are wasting lots and lots of emotional energy doing this all the time. I'll bet you are exhausted by all this.
Stop looking at the web about HIV; stop testing for HIV; stop thinking your partner has HIV and get some psychological assistance.
thank you dr sean
I have booked myself a appointment with a pyscologist for friday
I think you slightly misread my post, my partner has had no test, only i have, 20 over 2 years, my partner has come with me to all the tests,could you please ans the following
1) I am negative with all the test, can my partner catch anything from the clinics ie from door handles seats etc etc
2)my partner had 3 periods in 4 weeks and at the same time had 3 weeks of diarreoh with her period, I had no risk whatsoever, plus I done 20 hiv test , everytime i look at the internet ( I have stopped this now I have taken you advice) it states this is hiv when you have diarreoh for 3 weeks but my partner was a virgin before she met me and had no boyfriends so i cant explain this and i had no exposure but still done so many hiv test
3)the doctor thought it might be a cyst, my partner had a ultrascan but there was no cyst
4)sex with my partner often gave her pain as she was a vigin, could the friction give her diarreoh
5)your website worried cos some reader said something about subtypes,is this a issue for me
once again I apologise for asking many questions, but I have taken your advice on board and am goingto stop testing for hiv, stop wasting money, and I have all so booked my first appointment with a pyscologist
thank you dr sean for your help and advice
kind regards john
No, I didn't misread your question. I understood that your wife had not had any tests - but that you were projecting your anxiety/neurosis onto her.
Your further questions:-
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1) I am negative with all the test, can my partner catch anything from the clinics ie from door handles seats etc etc No - most definitely not
2)my partner had 3 periods in 4 weeks and at the same time had 3 weeks of diarreoh with her period, I had no risk whatsoever, plus I done 20 hiv test , everytime i look at the internet ( I have stopped this now I have taken you advice) it states this is hiv when you have diarreoh for 3 weeks but my partner was a virgin before she met me and had no boyfriends so i cant explain this and i had no exposure but still done so many hiv testthis is rubbish - you are negative - the symptoms are irrelevant
3)the doctor thought it might be a cyst, my partner had a ultrascan but there was no cystgo back and see the doctor again -its not HIV
4)sex with my partner often gave her pain as she was a vigin, could the friction give her diarreoh never heard of this
5)your website worried cos some reader said something about subtypes,is this a issue for meyou do not have HIV
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