i posted earler pleading for help really as i am going round teh twist a bit here.....
i mention to oral sex encounters in my post but i should have said that i was insertive ( think that is right ) i.i i was given teh oral i did not perform it...
sorry if this sounds daft but in conjuntion with my other post it should make sense
I think i just needed to hear froma doctor really, i am very aware of this issue and have been extremly carfull, but as u say it has become a phobia for me, i new the numbers were very low, i did not realise i was at no risk at all..