Hello, I started dating a guy a couple weeks ago. He is really nice. He is serious and hasnt dated many guys. He practises safer sex and has regular HIV tests like me. Our sexual relationship is very "soft" so far. When we are together we mainly kiss and cuddle. We have engaged in oral sex once. There was no ejaculation involved. I noticed that he was quite wet with precum. I found myself asking the question i didnt know the answer to: should i be worried in general about precum? Thanks to let me know. Best regards J

[Dr Sean]

Hello

I don't think you should worry about pre-cum. Your question made me more concerned about how comfortable you are with sex in general and your sexual activity seems very tame.

My suggestion would be for both of you to be tested for STD's and then for you to discuss how to proceed sexually.

best wishes, Sean